Birthday buddies! It was very cool to learn I was only a day behind becca and it’s a comfort to know I share old-timer fanning it up on tumblr status with elizabeth. ;p
crocordile said: awwww the big 30!! hehehe I’l be following u in a couple years 🙂 happy birthday, my friend!!
And then juliana to make me feel all old again. ;p i tease yet again, dear heart.
vefanyar said: Happy birthday! ❤ And the big 3-0 is a lie anyway, I’m beginning to think “adulthood” as such is a myth anyway.
I’m with you there; adulthood is definitely an artificial construct!
tindez said: Happy birthday! Sounds like a pretty excellent way to celebrate, for those around our age lol? (definitely not old but also not young enough to make a big, loud mess of it?)
Yep, cake and opening just a few presents (I got the coolest glittery cat bracelet watch from my grandma and bought myself awesome shoes) and not making a big deal of it is the way to go once you’ve aged out of your teens.
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Thank you, m’dear! That I have earned and not lost trust is probably the most meaningful compliment off that list, and there are times were I’m aiming to be funny so yay for success;) am curious what the last one is
I didn’t like Fëanor, but at first I thought you were underselling him a bit, and now I’m like, nope, fuck that guy.
re: tags -you know it’s true. 😉
And as for him, the funniest thing is before tumblr, I would have the same reaction. I never liked him, and even after the first reading that he resented his step-mother and half-brothers was something, while understandable as a weakness of human nature, did not make him attractive at all, and then threatening attempted murder of his brother and the light consequences (yes, I saw the ten-year banishment from Tirion as a light punishment, especially with dangerously enabling Finwë’s actions) soured me on him. But he disappears from the narrative so blissfully soon that he can be weirdly forgettable. So my attitude was that he wasn’t a great guy understatement but not 100% monster without redeeming factors and I didn’t mind his fans- mostly because at least in the mid 00′s I wasn’t truly coming across the fans of the Fëanorians to realize just how much they dominated sections of the fandom and what readings of the characters were out there that put my back against the wall. Oh, I noticed and disagreed with the concept of Fëanor as this champion of freedom of expression and knowledge suppressed by the Valar and the trend towards the demonization of Indis and Fingolfin, though my first exposure to the Silm fandom on tumblr was full of that, plus attacks against Lúthien and Elwing – hence my what the fuck avoid this. But even while trying to avoid that when getting into the Silm fandom, the white-washed version of Fëanor (or just the 180° interpretation of his personality) and others forced me to go back and closely read sections with him that I had always skipped over. And analyzing it made me notice just how uncomfortably nasty his rhetoric in Tirion was, the timeline of when that quote about great deeds casts it as his denial of any wrongdoing in the unprovoked slaughter and theft of allies, just how much my acceptance and tolerance for daddy!Maglor had worn completely away, so on and so forth.
It also forced me to look at Thingol and go from ‘eh i don’t like him but his people are great and he’s not always terrible’ to ‘fuck y’all he’s awesome’.
(Denethor II, Ruling Steward of Gondor, has always been my favorite character from LotR the minute Pippin met him and he refused to play to Gandalf’s script and omg yeah the noble but worn and hardened too brittle by duty older proud warrior authority figure, hello my type)
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Thank you, m’dear! That I have earned and not lost trust is probably the most meaningful compliment off that list, and there are times were I’m aiming to be funny so yay for success;) am curious what the last one is
I am fairly flexible on most points of Tolkien canon to the point where even those headcanons which ignore or rewrite significant chunks of it don’t bother me (see: a great number of posts I myself have made)
but every time I read some very charming post and stumble across “……and boromir is really defensive of aragorn’s claim to the throne”
I just go ahead and block that post I don’t need that in my life
All lovely, heart-hearted, and stubborn ladies! (I like and focus on male characters quite a bit too, but yes, this is most delightful group) It’s funny, I still think of Kate as the real Indis-mum, and despite the lopsided re-blogging, Misao is my favorite (female or otherwise) character from RuroKen. Not that Kaoru isn’t second, and in the top five of overall favorites. And yay, my OC queen!
I had to read Finduilas three times before I realized it wasn’t my Minas Tirith!
I decided to be purposefully obfuscating about that. Don’t ask me why. In fact I decided only the dragon would be the point where I explicitly clarified which Minas Tirith and Finduilas this was. There was no point to it.
I wondered if I needed to add more to Faelindis’s second segment. (the reason there isn’t a second for finduilas or gwenniel is obvious)